My friend had a break up some time ago and she can't seem to get over it. I know she still stalks the ex on Facebook even though she says the ex is blocked. Any suggestions on how to help her get past this before everyone around her goes insane?
_______________________________________
Robin A says: Facebook is evil, plain and simple.
Remember how much easier break ups were before social sites came along? Maybe you don't... but I sure do. There was no texting, emailing, tweeting... you had to man up, pick up the phone and talk one on one... or wait until school the next day and confront your soon-to-be ex with the news. If you wanted to stalk someone you waited outside their house or work or school... it was much more complicated and inconvenient enough to deter most from going the psycho route.
We've all been through break ups and they are never easy, but continuously feeding herself information about the ex is NOT healthy and prolongs what obviously should have been over some time ago. There's a reason they're your ex...
Tell her this is life and in life people break up every day. Pick yourself up, scrape yourself off, walk away and never look back. You only live once and you should be living for you. Have some personal pride!
Simply put: The hardest part about breaking up is getting used to being alone again.
* * * * *
Robin C. says:Adding to that, get her laid! ;)
No comments:
Post a Comment