Let it Go

My friend had a break up some time ago and she can't seem to get over it. I know she still stalks the ex on Facebook even though she says the ex is blocked. Any suggestions on how to help her get past this before everyone around her goes insane?
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Robin A says: Facebook is evil, plain and simple.

Remember how much easier break ups were before social sites came along? Maybe you don't... but I sure do. There was no texting, emailing, tweeting... you had to man up, pick up the phone and talk one on one... or wait until school the next day and confront your soon-to-be ex with the news. If you wanted to stalk someone you waited outside their house or work or school... it was much more complicated and inconvenient enough to deter most from going the psycho route.

We've all been through break ups and they are never easy, but continuously feeding herself information about the ex is NOT healthy and prolongs what obviously should have been over some time ago. There's a reason they're your ex...

Tell her this is life and in life people break up every day. Pick yourself up, scrape yourself off, walk away and never look back. You only live once and you should be living for you. Have some personal pride!

Simply put: The hardest part about breaking up is getting used to being alone again.

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Robin C. says:Adding to that, get her laid! ;)

The Ex Factor

How do I get my Boyfriends psycho bitch ex wife to move out of his house! She is crazy and WONT effn leave!

Thanks!
Karen, Massachusetts!
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Robin A. says: Wow.

Really?
Is there something wrong with her - you know *points to head* grey matter area?
Ha. There are SO MANY ways to have fun with this I don't know where to start.

The first thing (and the most fun in my opinion) would be LOUD SEX ALL THE TIME. Seriously. As often as possible, whenever she is there and hell, when she's not just because you can. Just be sure to leave signs that the action had taken place in her absence. Kitchen, living room... this is YOUR domain now.

Secondly, why not start leaving rental classifieds under the fridge magnets. Even more fun? Get the alphabet magnets. Subtle "get the hell out" messages and lots of "I love you's" to and from your man will not only get the hint across, but could be a romantic tool for both you and your guy.

Next? Redecorate. Everything. Talk to your boyfriend and ask if he'd be interested, it might make a nice project to work on together which would be even more fun. Start with the bedroom.

Lastly, if being an evil bitch isn't your bag there's always our legal system... which is no fun at all.

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Robin C. says: Well, my first thought are a couple of bikers, a burlap bag and a baseball bat.


My second thought is to heavily wax the floor where you know she'll be walking. She slips, she falls, she smacks her head - accidental. ;) Shit happens, right? It's not your fault you are compulsively clean.


My third thought is Florida, duct tape and chloroform. Apparently that shit is okay there. Someone just got a big "thumbs-up" for that.

My final thought is - you move out. What are you doing with a pussy-whipped guy that lets his ex stay there anyway? Why settle for sloppy seconds when there is plenty of fresh beef out there?

Penis-o-plenty my friend.